SB, I had no problem with the post. And I think like many others who posted after, it was the implication of BB's approach towards c/s women that prompted such responses. I read the first post when it was initially posted, and thought that's nice of her to express her feelings etc... it wasn't until further posts were made that I (and I am pretty sure others) felt they wanted to post. Even the posts we have made, again are not slagging off c/s. We're all reiterating our support of women's choice and while I want to say we'd never make a woman feel bad for her choices, I hesitate in that no-one can make anyone feel anything. We all generate our own feelings and emotions based on our own experiences, thoughts and beliefs. So only those feeling alienated have the power to feel alienated or not. Those feeling guilty can choose to feel guilty or not. You choose if you let something bother you or not. Not saying you are doing this, but in life, you can't go on a hunt for someone to blame for your feelings.... it wont get you anywhere because you own your feelings.

Have you had a look at the link in my sig yet? I think there's much appropriate info in there.