Whoa there Kelly,

I'm not having a dig at BB, it's usefulness or where I fit in. It doesn't hold a level in my life where it affects me in a bad way.

My opinion is about a wider community, the birthing world is bigger than BB so I was trying to talk about society in general.

For what its worth we have no issues with our choice if a needed CS. most importantly because we have educated ourselves, we are emotionally mature and we see that most empowering about our pregnancy and birth journey is a 5 week old little baby named Riley. He is what defines us.

I don't seek approval or opinion on our choice/s. We are happy. We have had setbacks that can be emotionally taxing, however we just float back to our little man and he makes it all worthwhile.

So just see my post as a broad opinion on society rather than BB.