With the whole 'there are a LOT of people that imply the natural, holistic approach in childbirth is the ONLY way a birth should pan out,' well yes, there are people like that... but even with my many, many birthy contacts and friends, MANY of them don't look at it that way and are respectful of needed c/s's. Some do think that way, but the very vast majority agree that c/s has its place and is important, it would be ridiculous for anyone to suggest that a vaginal birth should happen at ALL costs. I dont know ANYONE who thinks that.

If these people are around you and in your life, then find people to hang out with who are singing your tune or else the only other option is to accept that's their opinion and it's not yours. BB certainly doesn't have that view, I think MOST people would like a normal, natural birth where possible, but it doesn't always happen.

Most BB people join us during conception or early pregnancy. They know what we're like. They know what we say, they know our philosophy. But to come back after you have given birth, and had a c/s, then all of a sudden we're judgmental and unsupportive of that choice? How come we weren't before? People know what BB is all about, and if they feel this way and choose to keep coming back, there's nothing we can do. We don't preach ONE way. We might be passionate or suggest one way is more healthy in low risk women and give statistics and research as to why. But we NEVER say one option is best, for c/s or formula - there are normal ways to birth and feed - but nothing is ever best for one woman.

I am sure there are c/s forums out there. Join them if you wish. But if you're interested in growth, learning and empowerment, and perhaps seeing things in another light, then you're very welcome to stay and hang around at BB. We'll never give in from telling the truth to telling whats nicer to hear.