Char, i will support you whatever decision you make. There are benefits in allowing baby to choose his own birthday and i can give information to help you work through if that is what you want.

Likewise, if you have decided that you definitely want a c section then i can get you information to help it be a good experience, and tips to give you the best start to breastfeeding etc. (i know you have said you want to breastfeed this bub)

Did you find talking to the IM helpful at all?