OMG this is horrible. I feel so sad for all of you There is no reason for this!!

When I had my "emergency" c/s 4 weeks ago DD was given to DH immediately and he sat beside me and held her and held her up to me while they stitched me up. Once I was stitched up and they took the sheet down etc she was immediately unwrapped and put on my chest and she had her first breastfeed and everything. She stayed on my chest the whole time and while I was wheeled back to my room and then they weighed her etc and gave her back to me. I wasn't seperated from her the whole time I was in hospital and that's how it should be!!

I would just tell them that you WILL NOT be seperated from your baby if there is no medical need, they can not take your baby away from you if you don't let them so be strong! And get your DH on side and let him know exactly what he has to do. If I was having this problem I would just tell my DH that under no circumstances is he to let them take the baby and he is to hold onto the baby and stay with me. What are they going to do forcefully take it from his arms? I really wouldn't care if they got cranky with me if they were being so unreasonable.

omg this is making me so angry to you both.