What wouldd you do? Would you tell the DD the situation.. or just try sort it out with ex? We are currently going through mediation anyway as when he started to change his mind on things, I decided that if I'm paying for things, he has no choice in things. EG, what schools, what activities she does etc. So this will all be going through court orders etc in coming months.
Well i have told my dd the truth about everything concerning her dad but she is very mature for her age so i guess its up to you and whether you think she is old enough to understand. I agree if you are paying for everything he has no choice in schools etc.