hello,
I am in same situation as far as not getting CS from the father of my DSs the amount u receive depends on if he has other children in another CSA claim.
I only get like 1 dollar a month and he receives $60 a F/N for having boys every 2nd w/end which i might add i think is crap..
I also have a family court order in place for my boys (as he threatened to take them) it states he has access every 2nd w/end and half of holidays which is pretty much the norm. But as my boys were under 9 when i i got they had no say in it at all. Me either really unless he was physically hurting them my lawyer didnt want to know bout it. Nw i have a legal obligation to send them whether they want to go or not if i dont he can take me back to court i fface $6000 fine...
Anyway hope this info helps although every case is differant but if ur children dont want to go maybe speak to a lawyer and just see what they have to say...
Lisa