Barbara, I'm so very sorry for your loss.

It's possible that it may just take a bit more time for things to settle down. If that's the case, there's not much you can do but accept it and wait (and I'm an impatient person, I know how frustrating that sounds!)

The other thing is that temperature charting is more about the trends, patterns and changes in your temperature. A few temperatures on their own don't necessarily mean much.

Back in April, when we first discovered the right medication to get me to ovulate consistently and regularly, I had temperatures pre-ovulation that were around 36.3. Post ovulation I would reach 36.7. Currently my pre-ovulation temperatures are running at 36.5, and post ovulation around 36.8. If I were to compare the pre-ovulation temperatures of the two cycles, I would panic - a rise of 0.2C is more than enough to indicate that ovulation has occurred (even though my rise is higher).

Try to take notice of the other signals your body will send - mucus changes are probably the easiest and most obvious. Charting is something that it takes time to get used to, but remember - don't obsess about individual temperatures, try to look at the overall pattern.

And yep, you may just need to remind me of that again some time soon - I tend to get a little obsessive about these things after an embryo transfer!

Good luck, Barbara, I hope it all becomes clearer as time goes on.

BW