thanks girls for everything!
When i picked her up yesterday all the other kids were down for their sleep (they go down at 1130) and DD was running around by herself while they were asleep as she doesnt go down until 1 or 2pm lol. ANd i tol dthem not to bother forcing her as it would only end in more stress for her being forced to sleep when she isnt tired,

I told them i am taking her out and they were all upset as they said she did much better this week and joined in the activities after her morning cry. I didnt give specifics - just told them it isnt thecentres fault just personal issues the DH and I need to sort out.

She will go for another 2 weeks(im paid up) then i am going to be a full time SAHM. (well i guess since i stopped work i am anyhow)

Going to call a few playgroups today and perhaps join those for one off a week meets.