I wouldn't take her - but that's just me - I have just put DS into day care and he is very very slowly adjusting to it - he has been 6 times and isn't really LOVING it just yet - but I'm starting back on work on Monday so have no real other option.

If you don't need to take her then wait until you and her are both ready - I feel your pain - I think when they are able to vocalise better then that may be the time they need to go to pre-school up until then if she wants you and you her then just do what feels right