Hmmm are you now regretting asking this question????

It doesnt matter what I or anyone else thinks. This baby is yours, not mine or anyones elses and you have the ultimate choice without having to have others judge you for how you lead your life.

Pro's and cons...BLAH - what do you feel in your heart is the best thing to do? maybe you should wait until you meet your little man in person before jumping into any thing.

Dont try to think about this situation to much....I know its hard but you dont want to consum the last bit of your pg in worrying if your going to be doing the right/wrong thing.

im sure you'll make the best decission for your self, DH and your baby boy in the end.