My son was done and although I had doubts about it before hand Im glad I did it. From what I saw, I cant understand the hatred for it that alot of people have. My son survived, its not impacting on him now and it wont in the future unless he comes across people who will judge him for it, he cant miss something he doesnt remember having. Its a parents choice and they shouldnt be punished for it. Same as pro-circ'ers wouldnt hold it against anti-circ'ers who choose not to do it. If it was so horrible, there would be a law against it.