Ok this is why I HATE these topics, because its sooo easy to misunderstand what someone is saying...

Please guys take a step back and as I know you both somewhat well I know neither of you would want to attack or upset anyone its just one of those things where the internet causes things to get crossed. Like the comment Jo made, I knew she didn't mean it the way it could have been taken. Please think about this before posting... and don't post in anger... as you will only regret this later!

C'mon girls we're all friends and mothers who love our children and we can *try* to discuss this without hostility towards each other.

*hugs*
Cailin