No true, but the question you asked could easily be perceived as you saying (And I know you didn't say this I'm just using it as an example) that if you do choose to circ your choosing to hurt your child unnecessarily and you want to cause them unnecessary pain. Now I KNOW you didn't mean it that way but can you see how it can be perceived that way. Words suck... we need more than just emoticons, tone and body language are SOOOOO important and that is why these things happen.

*hugs*
Cailin