Brooke, I listened to Triple JJJ & the mourning the foreskin programme & that sealed it for me that I'd not have the procedure done, plus it's actually not done in DH's religion which is also a blessing for me...

We visited my friend the other day & her new 5-6 wk old son & her newly arrived husband from Turkey, he is Muslim, she mentioned to me during her pregnancy (hubby was still in Turkey at the time) that she was afraid of having a boy & her hubby wanting his son cic'd....

I said she would have to discuss it now before baby is born so he knew her thoughts etc...

This is the last time we have spoken about it, I do not know if he has been done... Basically what I'm saying is I'd never ask coz it's rude (IMHO) & I dont really think she owes it to me or anyone else to discuss it, have to explain the decision the decided etc... It's just not warranted I love the little bugger, he is not my son & it's not my place to comment or pass jusdgement or opinion, if he is done or not I really dont care, he is still the same to me...

But for my son I know I ownt be having it done... I am certain she'll never question us either!!!

Mutual respect!!!