I don't really have much advice to help.. but hugs to you anyway!!!!! DS was a screamer when he was a few weeks old because of wind, and it was horrible!!!! I wanted to take him back to the hospital and trade him in on another one a few times there!!! haha!!!! But Infacol worked for us, and I've heard that gripe water from the chemist can help also??? Sorry not much help.. good luck!!!!