and do your husbands mind having to share? Honestly do they mind? because im thinking that co-sleeping is mainly the mum's idea!
i think my DH enjoyed having her in the bed. if you think about it, fathers dont really get to spend much time with their newborns becaues they are generally out working all day, and at night bub is mostly sleeping.

The other benefit is that I didnt have to wake him up to go and get bub for me...she was right there and able to feed without waking up the whole family.