I cant really offer any advice, as Krystal still doesnt self settle
she has breast fed to sleep since she was born, thats worked for us, so i was happy to do it.. now i wish i had tried to teach her to self settle a lot earlier (i will be doing that with the next bub in the future!)

we went to the O'Connell family centre just after Krystals first birthday, they were great, with their help, i manaed to get Krystal to sleep.. the only thing is i had to let her cry. it wasnt controlled crying, but just listening to her cries.. and responding when needed. the thing is, i couldnt do this at home, i couldnt let her cry and cry and cry, so i never stuck to it! maybe i need to go back to O'Connell and tell them to help me without lwtting her scream in the room on her own!

there a few sleep clinics around, and thats what they specialise in... maybe give them a go, the o'connell centre was a 3 night stay, and i also did a day-stay program.

HTH & good luck!!