Firstly hugs. Sounds like you have heaps going on atm. My first suggestion would be to trust yourself more. You know your daughter better than you think. Oh yeah and make sure you take time out for some R and R before bub comes.

Did you just change DD to milk? It some times takes weeks for bub to adjust and they can get windy and bloated. If DD still complains of a sore tummy then try taking her off milk and giving her rice milk or some thing.

With your bedtime routine I have always found that being consistent works. Keep to the same time, put her to bed and don't take her out. If she is cracking it then pick her up, give her a cuddle and put back down. If she is uncontrolalbe then I would leave the room for a minute (this is for your sanity), wait till she settles down a bit, then go back in and tell her it is time to sleep. If you are getting too stressed then let DH take over but he must do the same that you were doing. You may find that it takes a month for DD to settle on her own and bedtime to improve but she will get it. Please disregard this advice if it does not sound right for you but this is what I have done with my DD. BTW once I took the dummy away she slept through the night...but don't try this until you have the current issue sorted.


Let us know how you go