Thanks Bekz

I don't think her problem is that she are not able to settle herself. It's that atm she does not want too. She was in such a good routine and I would lay her down and go back 10 minutes later to a sleeping angel. It's just the last two weeks that has been this silly wishing game, that is why I think something is up

I also think that she is going thru a emotional "growth-spurt". She gets frustrated and don't know how to handle then herself yet. It's awfull to watch, but she throws a tanty time and again. Lucky I am very patient, so we are sort that out. She is in day-care and I think she is learning (from other kids) to hit in order to cope with frustrations. That makes it worse, because she will deliberitly walk to me to come and hit me when I have taken something away. But me and DH is on the same page there, so it's handled in a consistent matter.

Thanks for all your input ... I enjoy brainstorming in here. Makes one feel less ... stupid