No, Bec you're not late. And I also do think that it might be teething after all, although like you said, I can see nothing new or now swelling or anything. She already has four molars, but they do seem to retract somedays if that could be possible. I would see them clearly one day and the next it would look like the gums are swollen around and over them. She does not complain when I touch it though. And no, pain meds don't help my toothache either.
I think Monday night was a fluke She had a ok'ish night last night, woke up about 3 times, not to bad. Only bugger is that I could not sleep!!! I had an extream hayfever attack about 9pm last night and that got me nice and stuffed up in the sinusses for the whole night (still am) I woke up every hour and really could not get comfy in bed inbetween. Aw well, that's life for you

Re - the hitting. Thanks for the tip. I like the idea of re-directing her. I would just tell her NO in a stern voice and say that you don't hit ppl. So getting her to maybe hit the couch or a cushion would be better. Thank you.