bek. you're not a bad mum at all & i think it's way too early to be making a call on bad sleeping habits.

i don't think i can offer any advice cos i'm horrible at getting corey to sleep. only feeding to sleep & putting him on our bed/co-sleeping works here. i leave nappy changes for when he wakes up because i find he wakes up too much if i do it before a nap. it takes me a few goes trying to feed to sleep sometimes & he gets pretty annoyed as well on those times. unfortunately it seems like him getting a bit upset actually makes him want to go back on the breast & he then falls asleep. i hate it, but sometimes it's all that works