Oh Bek I just want to send you a hun. The girls have offered some wonderful advice for you too.
We also ended up going to the same place as Willow and her DS1 and I have to say it was my saving grace.

Anyway I just want to let you know that consistency is the key here. Whatever your plan is try and stick with it and hopefully your DH will help with that too.
I'm sorry I haven't offered much help but know we are all here for you no matter what.
You are a wonderful mummy who is trying her absolute best for her little girls

Please know we are all here for you anytime