Your welcome, some of your posts seemed so familiar I thought I'd let you know your not alone.

It would break my heart to CC her too. The one time everyones comments got to me so much I tried to put her down in the cot awake, after not even 1 minute of patting and shhhing she was so upset I took her out and she vomited everywhere, I felt so bad it must have been really stressful for her.

I vowed then and there that they can all take a hike with this teaching them bad habits balony and decided to continue to let her lead the way its not like it will last forever, they are only babies for such a short time.

I find now with Maya if I let her have her sleep at 5 then the whole evening is messed up and she won't go to sleep untill late.