Well, I don't know if I am going to jinx it, but she went down quite easily tonight (well for her anyway).

The order was a little mixed up, as she had her shower early as she crawled in whilst I was having mine. She had a very good midday sleep and only a short afternoon nap, so she was tired by dinner.

6.00 Dinner - DH fed her, which was nice for once
6.15 Play whilst I got the bedroom ready
6.30 Get changed, nappy, read story with Peace Baby playing, bit of play
7.00 Change music to Robert Miles - this seems to tell her that I am serious about sleep. Get teddy and role play with teddy about feeding and then sleeping. Bf lying down with teddy close. To really get the sleep message across I stand up and pat/bounce her in my "sleep hold", she gets whingy, so I lay back down to feed and she goes to sleep! Stay with her, then move her to cot with teddy.
7.30 Time for cuppa \/
8.10 Went to bedroom and watched, she woke and looked close to resettling, but did not. Picked her up before she got too upset and fed her back to sleep on the bed. Transferred her back to the cot.
As of typing this, she is still asleep :sleeping:

Notes: Her cot mattress is much harder than ours (even though ours is brand new and quite firm) I padded it with blankets to soften, but not too soft IYKWIM, laid down my t shirt from the day and placed her on that

Feeling much better, I think she is getting the idea. Not fussed about the waking after 40 minutes, I assume that will improve with time.