Does she ever hav a dummy? I wouldn't introduce one now though.
Do you still wrap? Does she have anything for comfort??
DS will usually have a feed before sleep, but is ususally still awake when I put him down. I did a bit of CC though.
It does work. I never let him winge for more than 5 minutes, but after about a week he goes down fine. Don't worry, I understand its not for you.
We wrap, then put him down, with his dummy if he's really tired, but usually just wrapping him firmly is enough now. If he's having a good day he'll be asleep in 5 - 10 minutes.
If he is having a bad day & won't sleep I do rock him to sleep, but unless he is really upset, I'll try not to feed him.