Willow - the strange thing is, I never really did anything... she kind of got sleepy on the boob, then would unattach herself and just drift off. Now if I unattach her when she is awake, its the end of the world in her opinion!! Maybe I just need to keep trying till she figures out it isnt that bad

bjrose - thanks for the tips, will give it a try

Snowy love - thats good to know, I havent actually chosen a centre yet, but maybe thats one of the things I will ask when I go looking from now on. I just hate it when they tell me that I've created a bad habit! everyone I talk to outside of BB thinks its my own fault, this is the only place people seem to understand!