Kellie, it might be different when you are not there for her to have a bf. Certainly carers are very good at finding ways to get problem sleepers to sleep. Some of the ones at our centre can even get my stubborn 3yo to sleep and that is an achievement!!

In terms of comforters, you would be surprised at what works. DS1 used to like having his head covered by the sheet. DS2 uses his sheet, or any similar feeling cloth like a pillow case. This even soothes his tanties! So maybe some trial and error. But again, for you, some of these things might not work as you have milk, but if they work for others that is main thing for now. GL.