My MG are lovely, I'm not dissing them at all but they have started a one night a month thing where we all meet up without the babies. I've been unable to go and remain unable to go because of DDs sleep. So I'm to try the tough love so that I can get a night out? I don't think so.
Surely you are not the only Mum not going to these outings. I would only be there if they were baby friendly events cos bub would be there with me .

Another annoying thing happened earlier when I was at my ABA meeting. Lots of the mums from my MG go there too and one of them had a "bad" night last night where her DS was awake every 2 hours. She said "now we know how Sue feels" and they all laughed. Glad to know that I'm keeping everyone amused. FFS.
mate, you are not the only one. i am awake and changing sides with bub every couple hours so she can fill up for another hour or two of sleep.