I'm actually glad DD falls asleep on the boob cos' it is soooo handy!! I'm happy to keep doing it too as it seems to work for us. Sometimes when I put her down though, yes she will start crying as if to say "mum don't leave me i was comfy!" but most of the time she won't....

Jakabella - yeah its hard when they refuse to go to sleep at a decent time huh?? Last night it was 11pm for DD she went down at 9pm but woke 3 times between 9 and 11!!! Argh!

Marcellus - thanks, yeah I think my Mum thinks its manipulation because that is what they were taught perhaps 30yrs ago.... I too agree with you. It's just responsive parenting. I try not to listen to some of the 'older' parenting styles since there is more update knowledge these days
And yep we do put her in her cot from the start and during the night if she feeds, she will be put back to her cot but other times i am too exhausted and she falls asleep next to us.... which is nice as we wake up with a little cute face staring back at us

I just wonder.... will she eventually go back to going to bed at a decent time? say 7pm again>???? one day?? cos that was good..... LOL!!