Oh Shanti. Sounds like you're having a tough time.

I ditched self settling and cot sleeping about a month ago because she was cutting 4 teeth and couldn't be arsed to keep trying. Yes teething does suck!

Give yourself a break hun. You're doing a fabulous job. A 10 month old baby is VERY different from a 6 or 7 month old baby, so its little wonder things have changed.

The path of least resistance babe. That's all I can say. Why fight with them? Give yourself a little "holiday", and just try and tune into her. If she wants to have one day sleep or no day sleep then so be it. If she wants to crash out at 6pm, or 9pm, then just run with it. Give yourself a month or so and then reassess.

Its not worth the tears. You're a fabulous mummy!!!!!