We co-sleep and babywear alreay! He won't sleep atop me (would fall off, I've lost that much weight recently) but usually we sleep on our sides, him with a faceful of breast (DH is most jealous LOL) and me cuddling him. Sadly DS is wanting feeding so often the sling isn't his favourite place right now as he's so close to his milk.

The bedtime routine includes a massage and a warm bath just prior to that.

BTW, my mother even thinks DS's reflux is my fault for not winding him properly in the early days She is anti-baby wearing, demand feeding and co-sleeping so keeps telling me that this causes the problems we're having. He's actually an angel during the day most of the time but that doesn't stop her telling me everything is wrong! And she's invited herself round on Sunday and Monday (even my clothes aren't good enough, she's taking me to buy some more on Monday!).