Hi, Ryn,

It sounds like you are at the end of your tether! It sounds like your sick, and he's sick. You are doing all you can. He's just miserable. There things don't last forever, but it's really hard going while it lasts. You are a great mum, it's nothing you are oing (repeat that to yourself) If things don't get better, take yourselves to the doctor just to get it all checked out. Some things, like sore ears, aren't always obvious but can be very painful for a little guy.
Warm Regards
Barb