I had to fight DH to not CC He would say to me, just let her cry a little. I did that once - I put her in her cot (crying, no she was yelling) and came and sit down with DH infront of the TV, stole the remote and put the TV on mute. After about 30 seconds of him having to hear her cry, he told me to get up and go get her - DW 1 - DH 0
At the moment I am putting her into bed with us when she wakes at 2am or 4am or whenever and I can't get her back to sleep by patting her. I give her a bottle in bed with us and as soon as she is safely in dreamland. I pick her up and put her back in her cot. In the back of my mind I hear ppl telling me that what I am doing is wrong and are "learning" her to get up at that time and get into bed with us and are pick a rod for my own back, BUT those ppl are not in my house at that time of the night, so stuff them. They don't need to look after my kid at night - I do.
I agree with the other girls. Change the subject, don't give out more info than needed and if someone say you must CC, just reply that it's not something you are prepeard to do. If you get pushed, just ignore or say thanks, but no thanks. And in your mind you can drive an 9" nail throught their eyesocket then they can cry themselves to sleep *evil*