When we got married, I was adamant that I wanted 4 and DH was adamant for 2. Well had DD and whilst it wasn't traumatic, it certainly was a shock to the system so I changed my tune and have decided to take it one baby at a time! So we are on the path to bubs#2 and and DH is still happy with just 2...but deep down, I don't know if I can make myself feel ok with my next pg being my last.....so I keep reassuring DH that we'll take it one bubs at a time.......for me as much for him......and maybe with & secretly that one day he will beg me for more!!

I don't know who compromises either - hopefully it'll all happen the right way for you both and you'll both burst with excitement if this month is yours!