I do agree bigger bubs are easier to handle, I didnt take offence, I just dont want people to think I just want a little baby for the sake of it. I definetly dont think size has anything to do with a better labour I have heard some shockers from people with the littlest babies, my labour wasnt all that bad (ok crowning for 6 hours did suck) with a big baby, it is more from the complications I had with a bigger baby. Thankyou for your thoughts though I really is appreciated, I have no family here and most dont know we are even TTC (its been 10 years they have all given up hope) and my own mum doesnt want me to have anymore so I cant discusss anything with her, its nice to have a place to get those thoughts out in a non judgemental environment.


I am waiting for that o day!! 6 days to go.