I totally agree with you that it is unfair. I do need to speak to him about it more. but the time we get to spend together is limited. I really do want to be with him, its not fantasy or anything like that. He is my younger brothers best friend. My brother knows about us, and he tells me that this nice guy (his mate) really loves me but he is worried about his unborn child because his ex ended up in hospital when he left her, trying to end her life.

So how far do I push him to leave her properly and go public with me??

edit: he is ok with me becoming pregnant as long as i dont have sex with anyone to get pregnant