Lilias I hope you don't mind me saying this but it sounds like you need to have a good chat with your DP about whether or not the snip is the right move for you both. If you are not pregnant just now then it would be terribly sad if he went and had the op without you fully being happy about the end of your childbearing years.

Good luck, and I hope you are cooking a wee bub in your tummy just now

T
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