Charliebrown, i really don't know how it happened,but I know it was only the once as my partner went away for the rest of the cycle on a training camp??? Back then I had a tregular 28 day cycle,but I guess things can change easily.
Lilias, like you say they are babies for such a short amount of time, but I was in shock and had huge doubts this time because we are out of that baby stage and we had planned the vas, but used to the idea now.. if you think you really want to throw caution to the wind, tell DH he might just surprise you with what he thinks??