Well, we weren't trying at all... let alone trying for one or the other. But just in case it helps!

We BD'd a couple of days before I suspect I O'd, then again the day I O'd and a day after (as best as I could recall when I did the pg test a week and a bit later!). I *think* I got pg from the middle time when I O'd. We had a girl and I think that would fit with the theory since we'd BD'd b4, during and after O and didn't abstain for any length of time.

We'll be trying for a boy next time around, but I really don't care. In fact, if it's another girl I know I'll have an easier time talking DP into #3!!