LOL Kellz!! I agree TTC IS stressful!! The first 3 times we weren't trying, #4 we tried for 6 months and then when we gave up trying it happened! So I think I'll just go with the flow and see what happens (especially as I have no cycle to chart atm!! LOL) But I'm pretty sure I'm O-ing, judging by CM consistencies ...
hello ladies, well my getting utd for this cycle is temporarily on hold, yes i am being a good sister and puuting my sisters request ahead of my personal situation and my feelings, as my sister so nicely put it in her text message last night, i am not to steal her lime light!
For thoose that dont know, (i posted in the other thread yesterday), my little and only sibling, darling sister is getting married sep 26 th, this year, she knows i want another baby, but does not know that i am already ttc, yesterday she said on the phone, and it has been said months ago also, that i am not allowed to be pregnant/due around her wedding, well since the first announcement her other bridesmade has sad that she is ttc, so now i am just no longer alowed to be due near her wedding, so if i do ttc this cycle and am successful i will have a due date in early october, just arround her wedding date, and we all know babies dont come when they are suppose to.
So stressed all night, about this and think that i will try and avoid dtd especially around o time, just so i dont conflict with her.
What are your thoughts, honestly am i doing the right thing, i feel its right for her but not for me?
Oh Lisa I don't know what to say to you I don't know how I would feel if my sister asked the same of me - she's engaged but hasn't set a date yet. Are you close with your sister? Could you talk to her and tell her how much this means to you? I'm sorry I'm not more help
Aw Lisa that's rough hun. But seriously, does your sister expect you to stop DTD just because she is getting married??? If I did have a sister, I'm not sure what I'd do in that situation.
Hi ladies, thanks for the replies.
My sister is not aware of the fact that i am ttc, and in her text last night she asked whats the hurry, my sister and i are very close, so close infact that i look after her son one day a week for nothing, although since her partner has been ill, we have drifted slightly.
Im 31, i want a big family, i cant afford to have really big gaps between kids, i love my kids and want nore, man i feel like i have to justify why i want to have kids.
I suppose i will just have to see what happens, when its that time, of dtd.
Its just really put me out of sorts emotionally, i was quite aware of the dates conflicting, but for her to tell me, it just upset me, although she wont see it that way.
Lisa, i told you my thoughts last night. Personally i wouldnt wait..... HOW you would be stealing her lime light i have no idea as she will be the bride, she WILL ahve everyone's attention.
Thanks bec, my hubby is now saying she is selfish and is peeved at her, like i was saying to kel tonight, i may or may not concieve this cycle, but if i dont give it a go how will i know? And if it takes me ages to concieve will i then be saying what if it could have been my time back in jan.
I just really cant believe how stressed i am over it.
Its so stooopid.
Well ladies im going to bed to sulk, its Emmersons first day at kindy tomorrow so i have to be up early. night.
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So I think I'll just go with the flow and see what happens (especially as I have no cycle to chart atm!! LOL) But I'm pretty sure I'm O-ing, judging by CM consistencies ...
I don't know how I would feel if my sister asked the same of me - she's engaged but hasn't set a date yet. Are you close with your sister? Could you talk to her and tell her how much this means to you? I'm sorry I'm not more help
that's rough hun. But seriously, does your sister expect you to stop DTD just because she is getting married??? If I did have a sister, I'm not sure what I'd do in that situation.
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