hello ladies, well my getting utd for this cycle is temporarily on hold, yes i am being a good sister and puuting my sisters request ahead of my personal situation and my feelings, as my sister so nicely put it in her text message last night, i am not to steal her lime light!

For thoose that dont know, (i posted in the other thread yesterday), my little and only sibling, darling sister is getting married sep 26 th, this year, she knows i want another baby, but does not know that i am already ttc, yesterday she said on the phone, and it has been said months ago also, that i am not allowed to be pregnant/due around her wedding, well since the first announcement her other bridesmade has sad that she is ttc, so now i am just no longer alowed to be due near her wedding, so if i do ttc this cycle and am successful i will have a due date in early october, just arround her wedding date, and we all know babies dont come when they are suppose to.

So stressed all night, about this and think that i will try and avoid dtd especially around o time, just so i dont conflict with her.

What are your thoughts, honestly am i doing the right thing, i feel its right for her but not for me?
oh my gosh wat a terrble thing 2 say that u r not 2 steal het lime light ,,,, gosh. u will do wat your heart feels , no matter wat ppl say 2 u,,i know i would just say u dont have 2 have me in your bridal party in case i do fall pg then that way u r protecting yourself if u know wat i mean the she cant come back at u , thats if u r in the wedding party if u not then it shouldnt matter.
all the best
just my oppinion