my big regret about ttc is telling people. i really wish that i didn't coz if you get emotional or put on weight or anything that could be a sign people assume you are preg and pester you.
Exactly this. I've put on roughly 6kg in the past 6 months (ouch!) and frankly, didn't want people questioning it all the time.

The only two people that know we're actively TTC, are my best friend, and my sister. They both know not to pester :P