Nope never painful here either & I had them every second day for two weeks through my IVF cycle. Possibly it was due to you being stressed & embarrassed about it?

Have you checked out the article on the main BB site about PCOS - Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS)

Also if you post in the PCOS / Endo section there are lots of ladies that will be able to talk you through it all. You will have a baby, it is still possible with medication & you'll find that lots of women fall pregnant without needing any assistance.