I can relate to that. When I got my recent BFP which I ended up loosing my DH recently admitted it really threw him and he wasn't excited about it. That was a big of a shock as it wasn't like it wasn't planned. In the end I said it was up to him and since then he has been not careful at all so that is a nice change to what you described as to where to let the end product land lol.

I really really want to be pregnant again and have been getting really disappointed and a bit down at times when its a BFN. But I also know if and when I get pregnant we will also be anxious about have we done the right thing and the financial and career changes it will mean. I guess once your holding a precious life in your arms you know what a miracle they are and non of the other stuff really matters at the end of the day.