When you just can't decide??

[MissM]

For us/me, I am pretty confident this is our last. We have decided not to do anything permanent until the youngest is around 2. We will revisit the topic then

Good luck!

ETA- the spd this time has really put me off.

[Arimeh]

I felt the same way after DD2, someone was missing. We already had the big car though, and I was already a SAHM, and realistically, I'm going to go to uni and study, so whats another couple of years tacked on to that when compared to another person in the family to love? DH didn't want a 4th, he was happy to stop at 3, however he knew that I would regret not having one more than he would regret having one.

So we had our 4th and we were done. Absolutely done, I didn't feel anyone was missing and I knew I made the right decision.

Now I'm pregnant with #5 because accidents happen apparently! Its not been an easy ride though deciding whether or not to continue with this pregnancy because we felt so very much done. But we decided that the universe did this for a reason even if we don't know why!

I think you will know when you are done.