hi lilas what has worked for me this time was setting lots of mini goals the first was getting under 80kg then getting to 5% weight loss then my pre dd2 weight then my pre dd1 weight, they were 2-5kg goals that have made it so much easier. Instead of thinking I have to lose 13kg and getting no where I kept hitting my mini goals and feeling like I had accomplished something and that gave me a boost to keep going. I have now lost 9kg since having dd2.

Good luck hun