It's hard to know but Paige shows a lot of my personality traits (including a nasty little temper when tired or sleep deprived) but DH's family are a very passionate and hands on family and I see these characteristics developing in her also, full time day care also helps develop her confidence and independence much more than I was at her age my mum was a stay at home mum and we lived out of the main town area so I really only interacted with my 3 brothers (it suprises me that Paige is a girly, girl as I was more of a tomboy) when I can manage to post another picture I'll try to upload one of my baby photos for comparrison. We are starting to get the, "where did she get the blonde hair/blue eyes" question occaisionally so far a simple oh that comes from her grandparent seems to work as none of my grandparents are living people don't seem to take it past here LOL I don't really care what anyone else thinks anyway, She definately acts like she belongs in our families