Hi there

We have found out my husband has a very poor morphology and poor motility. We tried for 5yrs to have our darling 23 month old son, and after 3 failed ivfs we managed to conceive naturally which is a total miracle.

We have been trying for number 2 for over a yr now but with no luck, so are going to start looking at donor sperm. I am 38 and my husband is 43 so we really want to get on with it.

I have so many questions on the how's and why's.

Has anyone out there used a sperm donor and how did they find the experience?

Did you use a clinic provided donor - QFG has a very limited number of donors?

Or did you use a website? I have looked on one site which seems to be quite well respected, but how on earth do you go about it ie how do you ensure the health of the donor, how do you organise collection etc?

I would love to hear from anyone who has been through donor program, or in the same boat with poor sperm quality and how you are dealing with it. I feeling rather confused and aprehensive i suppose about the whole process.

Many thanks