Hi Marj,
suziq doesn't hang around here much any more but both her and I belong to a fantastic online support group for both egg donors and recipients. It is Australian/NZ based called aussieeggdonors (AED for short). It is really hard to find via a google search so if you email me at anney2227@yahoo.com.au I will send you a link as I don't think I can post the address here. there are a few people from BB on AED.
It really is worth joining something like this to think about all the issues as it really can be something that affects you and your family for a long time.